OP's daughter: " thank you puppy, no, i can get up on my own puppy, thank you, give me a hug." (cr: 海棠妈)
art by 麦太的手绘小屋 and 童小乐
"Normalise this", "Normalise that".
Nah.
Allow it to be queer - let it be as it is: strange, discomfiting, eerie, wyrd and eldritch.
Make it incomprehensibily awe-inspiring.
As vast and terrible, intimate and vulnerable as the very kosmos itself in all its more than human diversity & variety.
Allow *that* to be OK, to be holy, righteous, divine and daemonic.
Let the teeth of care be shown, and the softness of the uncaring stellar lullabies sing you to your rest.
Be fiercely kind.
